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Characteristics of mothers who raise successful daughters

According to VnExpress September 2, 2023 06:05

Good mothers who sometimes play the role of "police" are said to be a trait that helps raise successful daughters.

A study by the University of Essex (UK) surveyed 15,500 girls aged 13-14 from 2004-2010 and found that girls with "tough, high-standard mothers" were more likely to go to university and earn higher salaries.

The researchers also found that girls with strict mothers were “less likely to become teenage mothers.” The study found that parents with high expectations were 4% less likely to have a teen pregnancy than parents with average expectations.

Pregnant teens are more likely to leave school early and earn less than others, even if they have jobs. They also face the situation of forming relationships with men who are less educated and more likely to be unemployed, the report said.

Ericka Rascon-Ramirez, the study’s author, points out that in many cases, we stubbornly pursue what we believe is good and right for us, even when it goes against our parents’ wishes. However, no matter how hard we try to avoid our parents’ advice, chances are we’ll eventually look back at what they say and take it to heart.

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So, what benefits will a strong mother bring to her child?

The value of independence

According to Harvard research, daughters of working mothers may be more successful as adults, while sons of strong, independent mothers are more likely to contribute at home. Children with strong mothers can think for themselves and make decisions. They also have more equal views on gender as adults.

The ability to be both strong and feminine

Children learn from adults, and girls look to their mothers as role models. Their mothers’ resilience in caring for them and getting through tough times will teach them more than you think.

Proactively develop skills to succeed in life

A strong mother helps her child develop skills such as problem solving, critical thinking, reasoning, and creativity. You become your child’s first educator. When you encourage them to learn, children discover the importance of education, expressing themselves, and asking questions. When a mother is a strong woman who is willing to try, fail, ask questions, learn more, and admit when she is wrong, her children will do the same as they grow up.

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