Divorced but still supporting ex-husband

July 19, 2022 15:01

You might think that divorce is a case of each person taking the road and taking care of themselves, but that's not the case in many families. Women in this situation often click their tongues and say, 'I'm still in debt'.

Ms. Q married Mr. T and had 3 children, both boys and girls. When Ms. Q and her husband broke up, many people dared to say, "You two are from two different worlds, how could you live together until now?" Ms. Q is quick, smart, resourceful, has all kinds of degrees, but on the contrary, Mr. T, Ms. Q's husband, has nothing. Mr. T only finished 9th grade, has a mediocre job, who would hire a man without a degree like that. So from the time they got married until the time they broke up, Ms. Q was the only one responsible for the family's finances. She took care of the rites for both families, making no one blame her and making them love her even more.

When going to court for divorce, Mr. T wrote in the petition: No division of property, no child support, no alimony. That means he will be the one who leaves the house and leaves the property to the mother and three children, while Ms. Q will raise the three children and receive no alimony from her husband. Now, every time she mentions it, Ms. Q still laughs and says, "At least he still has some self-respect to leave the house to the mother and three children."

After the divorce, Mr. T went back to live with his parents. He had no qualifications or talent, but because of his pride, he stayed at home. He sold everything he had until there was nothing of value left.

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As for Ms. Q, because she was still a quick-witted person, her business became more and more prosperous and developed. Many times when she saw the children's father, she felt sorry and was afraid that the children would be sad. Therefore, when there was delicious food, she told the children to invite their father over for dinner, and she was willing to help with anything they needed financially. Then one day, she called her ex-husband to ask if he wanted to work in the company. Although he was very proud, Mr. T still agreed.

Ms. Q said, saying that she did it to show off but in reality she didn't know how to do anything, just let her do the errand boy, pay her 10 million a month so that she would have money for medical treatment and the children would feel secure and happy when they saw it. Every month, she received a regular salary without missing a single penny, but Mr. T never sent it to her or the children. Many people even urged her to keep half of her salary so that he could take care of the children, but she just smiled gently and said, "For so long, without a few pennies from him, my four children and I have been living well, not only that, but we have been living properly. So now that he is working here, I just want to show him that he is still valuable in the eyes of the children. I do this for my children. Besides, now the children's father is sick a lot, so that amount of money is only enough to cover the medical expenses, so I don't think much about that money. Normally, I can do charity work everywhere, let alone with my ex-husband, there is nothing to regret."

In addition to receiving a regular salary, whenever Mr. T needed to go somewhere, he would call Ms. Q to ask to borrow her car. One day he would go back to his hometown, another day he would take his grandparents to the temple... Ms. Q was also very clear. As long as he borrowed the car for a legitimate family matter, she was willing to help. But if he wanted to go out with friends, he would rent a car and go.

Ms. Q thinks that everything that happened to her was "fate". After everything she has gone through, she now finds her life with her children truly happy and peaceful, her career is developing. Her children are lucky to have the same qualities as her, not only are they good at studying but also good at playing musical instruments, singing, drawing, and embroidering. Her children sometimes tease her: "I don't understand how Mom could love Dad in the past, a person who has nothing in his hands is almost a faulty version. I will definitely not fall into the same love story as Mom and will never marry someone like Dad." She just smiles gently and says, "Everything has its reasons and the important thing is that Mom has you."

According to VOV

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