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Raising a child aged 8-9 can be confusing and even difficult for many parents due to the complex psychology of children between childhood and adolescence.
Research shows that a lot happens during the brain and body development of 8-9 year olds, making their emotions at this stage complex and difficult to observe. Meanwhile, parents at this stage have to deal with bigger issues such as cognitive development and understanding social norms for their children.
Eight-year-olds make cognitive leaps as they develop higher-level language, math, and writing skills, says clinical psychologist Mary Ann Little, PhD. They are learning to understand cause and effect and how things work, she points out. Morals and personal values are also beginning to develop. Although they haven’t necessarily gone through puberty, they are becoming more aware of their growing bodies.
In terms of emotional development, children are testing their independence and figuring out who they are. They increasingly want to belong to a group and find their place in the social hierarchy, whether it’s at school, church, or sports. In other words, 8- and 9-year-olds are navigating the world in completely new ways that help them assert their independence.
Dr. Little shares that many parents report increased stubbornness or irritability in their children at this age. As they test their autonomy, you may find your child becomes more sensitive, demanding, and difficult.
So what should parents do with their children at this stage?
Be more patient
Patience is important. Parents may need to take a few deep breaths, but understanding that their child is in the midst of a developmental transition can help them stay calm instead of reacting. Children want to be adults and also want to be held like babies, says Dr. Little. So parents need to be empathetic to their child’s feelings. It takes a little extra love to understand.
Limit social media
Social media can even influence your child’s behavior earlier than expected. Comparing yourself to your peers and social norms can be challenging at this vulnerable age, so it’s best to limit social media or talk openly with your child about what they see online.
Train but not control
It is essential to coach and guide your child so that they can learn to problem solve and regulate their emotions. It is important to help children learn to identify and manage their rapidly developing emotions, an important skill that will serve them well in their future lives.
Parents should work with their children to establish age-appropriate responsibilities. At the same time, you can foster independence by letting your child choose their own clothes or allowing them to spend more time with friends. This gives them the opportunity to explore their desires in a safe environment.
Remember that your children still need you even when they push you away.
Your child needs support even when he or she appears to be an adult. So, be close to your child. When you practice communication skills and trust, you create a strong foundation for your relationship as your child moves into their twenties, teens, and beyond.
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