Being too sentimental in love can have serious consequences.

The man’s sister said that during their relationship, the man ate sparingly and transferred a total of 510,000 NDT (about 1.8 billion VND) to the girl. In response, the girlfriend suddenly broke up with him just a month before their marriage registration.

Is love nowadays too fleeting, cruel, and breaking up makes it hard for those who still love to get over it? That is the question many young people ask. On the other hand, there are also many relationships where lovers change like clothes, which makes everyone feel fed up.

Introduce new boyfriend every group meeting

In mid-March, when receiving a wedding invitation from M. Duyen (26 years old, living in Tien Giang province), a group of friends at high school were shocked. The groom's name looked strange. He was not the classmate that the group had played with back then.

Friends say that this office worker in Ho Chi Minh City is a womanizer. She has had a boyfriend since 10th grade. After graduating from college and starting a job, every time they meet, Duyen introduces her new boyfriend.

Late last year, the group was surprised again. Duyen was in love with a male classmate from high school. She explained: "It's close to home so it's easier to get married."

"But when we got married, the groom wasn't my friend," one of the group members expressed regret. "No wonder I couldn't find T.'s (Duyen's ex-lover) Facebook for a month. He must be heartbroken," another added.

Meanwhile, some people find it difficult to understand why a love affair that was supposed to end beautifully ended so quickly.

Explaining her friends' constant questions, Duyen said: "Everyone knows that T. has been pursuing me since high school. When I was heartbroken, T. texted me to ask how I was doing, so I intended to give him a chance. But I didn't expect that we really weren't compatible."

However, the group of friends were surprised. Why did they find a husband-to-be so quickly after just breaking up?

Having been in love for a long time, Minh Trong (living in Ho Chi Minh City) explained: "Love, break up and then love again to find the right person to get married."

With the motto "love a lot so you don't regret because life is short", he was rumored by some female colleagues to be a "bad boy" because he sees love as a game and is irresponsible. "Bad boys" easily change their feelings and are always looking for new emotions.

I once thought of suicide because my lover of 3 years said goodbye.

Tragedy in love can be seen as the opposite situation of changing lovers like changing clothes.

TA (28 years old, living in Thu Duc City) still remembers a late night a few years ago. On her way home when the boarding house was closed, she suddenly received a call from a friend. "Urgent. If you have time, go to Saigon Bridge. H. is planning to jump off the bridge. She just broke up with her boyfriend."

Shocked, TA immediately booked a ride from Thu Duc City to Saigon Bridge to find his friend.

When she arrived, she looked around the bridge twice, but saw no one. She called her friend to tell him the news and then realized. Her friend H. was drinking a lot of beer in her rented room. H. was heartbroken so she said she was going to jump off the bridge, making her friends worried.

TA said that H. always believed that their 3-year relationship would end with a wedding. When her lover broke up with her because they were "not compatible", everything collapsed. "Luckily, my friend got drunk that night and fell asleep in the motel room. Otherwise, I don't know what would have happened," TA said.

Tragedy in love is when a person loses himself, loses his personal value, and depends completely on the other person. They are willing to sacrifice everything for love, regardless of the pain. They are also blind to the mistakes of their current and ex-lovers.

Now, after a long breakup, H.'s condition is better but she still doesn't want to start a new relationship. She is always afraid of being abandoned again. But TA thinks that her friend actually hasn't been able to get over her ex-lover after the breakup.

There have been tragic warnings that love can lead to serious consequences. When people break up, they can suffer negative effects on their mental and physical health, and lose out on good opportunities in life. They are also vulnerable to hurt and betrayal. And they find it difficult to find happy, lasting love.

On the contrary, changing lovers like changing clothes represents immaturity and lack of maturity. As Minh Trong later realized, being promiscuous negatively affects his reputation and self-image.

Now Trong has a hard time finding true love. He loves many people and is in his early 30s. His parents at home are urging him to get married, but he hasn't found a girl to marry yet.