How to judge people by their eating habits

Ordering food reflects emotional intelligence

Chinese writer Li Yueliang, author of many famous books such asLive like the sun, Life is beautiful, don't let your heart be narrow,She said that when she was on a business trip, a local friend treated her to dinner.

The restaurant seemed high-class, with a variety of dishes. The friend was very enthusiastic, letting Nguyet Luong order. She was confused because she had never been here before, did not know what was good and how much her friend's budget was. In the end, she reluctantly ordered two dishes, thinking they might suit her taste, and the prices were reasonable. But after looking at them, her friend said they were not good, so she changed them. Nguyet Luong's actions confused her, because if that was the case, why did she ask her to order in the first place?

As the saying goes: "You can see the whole leopard in one spot and convey the spirit in one look." People with high emotional intelligence will respect the choices of others, not selfishly for themselves.

When asked to order, order modestly and know when to stop. Ordering food is a small matter but the knowledge involved is not shallow. The person who can order to satisfy everyone at the table is a person with good diplomatic skills and is loved.

Table manners reflect personality

Renowned British etiquette expert Henry Hanson said, “A good observer can tell where your parents came from and what your education level is from a single meal.” And according to Hanson, the best way to judge a person is not by their face, but by their eating habits. Every move during a meal is a microcosm of a person’s upbringing and an embodiment of their inner self.

In a small space like a dining table, everything can be expressed clearly. Educated people will always speak softly when eating and care about other people's feelings. Even if they don't like the taste of the food, they will keep it to themselves. If they do speak out, they will consider other people's feelings.

What really makes people happy is not the quality of the food but the quality of the people.

Personality reflected on the wine table

You can tell a person's character by how they drink. Many people have a habit of bragging when they are drunk. This is the type of person who cannot be trusted.

People who know how to drink but pretend not to drink and find every way to convince others to drink are cunning people.

A knowledgeable drinker knows who he is drinking with, how much to drink, what to say and what not to say. This behavior at the drinking table is that of a calm, confident, and trustworthy person.

Avoiding paying for food won't get you far.

In daily life, there are often people who make excuses to be absent when it is almost time to pay for a drinking party. These petty people lack foresight and wisdom in life.

People who pay their bills are not fools. They do so without worrying about gain or loss and will receive many great things in return, such as friendship and good relationships.