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For women, whether single or married, learning how to balance life, learning to love yourself, respect yourself and take care of yourself is extremely important.
In modern life, women play an extremely important role. They are the nucleus of each family, the exemplary mother and wife, always taking care of their parents, husband and children. From the role of "domestic affairs", they also make their mark in the role of "foreign affairs". Many women have high degrees, high positions and play important roles in society. Women's achievements are recognized and highly appreciated by society in many fields.
But in modern life, the pressure on women is increasing. They are now not only stuck in the kitchen, not only immersed in a pile of work at home, but they also have to work hard to find a good job, prove their worth, and find opportunities for career advancement. In many families, women are even the pillars, the main source of income.
Whether they are housewives or working mothers, women have to work hard all day. Usually, they are the first to wake up in the morning, prepare breakfast and prepare the necessary things for their husbands and children to go to school or work. Then, they quickly change into a set of clothes, comb their long, messy hair and rush to the office. If they stay at home, they have to arrange the house, cook, clean, and do the laundry. In the afternoon, they rush to pick up their children, prepare dinner for the family and once again work hard until they are exhausted at night. They have no time to relax and pamper themselves even if they want to take a nap while the children are still awake.
Because of overwork, women feel so tired that even when they have free time, they do not like to take a relaxing bath, take care of their skin, hair... but only start planning for the next day, what to eat, what to buy and the like... This cycle repeats every day, every week, every month, every year and drains all the energy of women.
Many women justify this by saying that if they don’t take care of their husbands and children, who will? If they take a break when the house is in a mess, who will help them clean up? If they allow themselves to spend too much on hair care, buying nice clothes... then how will they ensure money for their family? Some mothers even feel guilty when ordering take-out food for their husbands and children.
The demand for women to be both "good at public affairs and good at housework" in modern society is too much for women if they do not have help from their families and their husbands.
Therefore, the more modern society becomes, the more women choose to get married, have children late, or even stay single to enjoy life. After stressful working hours, they can go out, hang out with friends at cafes, go to spas for beauty treatments, go shopping, travel... without having to worry about rushing to pick up their children, going home to cook for their husbands, cleaning the house...
Independent, confident women even choose a career over marriage and children. Marriage and childbirth greatly affect women’s health, time, money and advancement opportunities. These women always exude the beauty of youth, vitality and energy, in contrast to many mothers who are always “disheveled”, dressed sloppily and always busy with all kinds of things.
Sometimes, because of too much love, devotion, tolerance, empathy, and understanding, women choose to put their family before themselves. But don't forget, if you collapse and become exhausted, neither you nor your family can be happy. Every day that passes for you is heavy and bitter, and you always ask yourself: How long can I continue? How much longer can I try and endure?
Therefore, whether you are a single woman or a married woman, learning how to balance your life, learning how to love yourself, respect yourself and take care of yourself is extremely important. If you do not love yourself, how can you love your family completely? If you do not respect yourself, who will respect you? If you do not take good care of yourself, who can you take care of? If you are not happy, how can your family be happy?
No matter how busy you are, give yourself a certain amount of time to rest, to recharge your batteries, to see that there are many beautiful things in life, to expand your world beyond just home and work. Take some time to take a nap, take a relaxing bath, listen to some music, watch a movie... If you like, you can also meet up for coffee with friends, go to a spa to relax, get beauty care, go shopping...
Women's happiness is sometimes as simple as wearing a beautiful dress, wearing a pair of high heels, eating delicious food, seeing yourself young and beautiful when looking in the mirror... These small, simple moments will help you love life much more. It will help you calmly deal with the stresses of life. It will spread positive energy, making people around you happier.
Don't be too hard on yourself. Always tell yourself, you did a great job! Don't judge yourself when you wake up late and forget to make breakfast for the kids. Allow yourself to be lazy, not cook dinner when you go out with your family, hire someone to clean the house...
Allow yourself to be a little selfish. After all, you are human, you are not perfect, you make mistakes. Also because you are human, you have the right to enjoy all the joys, angers, loves, and hates of human beings. Before being a good wife, a good mother, an exemplary employee, you must be a woman who knows how to take care of herself, love herself, and respect herself.
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