From the story of Jack - J97 and Thien An, worried about their children

Let me call singer Trinh Tran Phuong Tuan (born in 1997) in Ben Tre province as Jack - J97 as many young people are calling him today. As for Thien An, full name is Tran Nguyen Thien An (born in 1998, in Binh Duong province), she is a photo model and actress. However, Thien An is known to many people as Jack - J97's ex-girlfriend.

Although they broke up 4 years ago, in recent days, the "internet" in Vietnam has been stirred up with information related to this couple, causing the keywords "Thien An", "Jack J97" to be searched a lot on platforms such as Facebook, Google Vietnam...

The information that Thien An shared on her personal page was related to the fact that her ex-boyfriend Jack - J97 had tempted her to have two abortions. When she became pregnant with the third child, she was determined to keep it. After that, the couple broke up, and Thien An agreed to raise the child alone. However, the child's father, singer Jack - J97, did not provide adequate support for the child.

There are many conflicting opinions surrounding this story. Many people support Thien An when she encounters a treacherous man. They believe that Thien An's mistakes in abortion are just the rashness of youth, forced by her lover, and she came to her senses when she kept her third child. Therefore, Thien An is more pitiful than angry. As for Jack - J97, he is a treacherous man who did not fulfill his duty as a father...

I can be like some people, sympathizing a little with Thien An and Jack - J97 about the recklessness of youth, but leading to an unwanted pregnancy for the third time when not married is blameworthy.

In my opinion, the actions of Jack - J97 and Thien An are manifestations of the loose lifestyle of young people who are not yet married, leading to unfortunate consequences. Not to mention the ethical aspect, abortion for women can have effects on their health and fertility later on. For women who have never given birth, it can also have psychological effects and affect their future life.

If this were just a story of a normal couple in love, it would probably be forgotten over time. However, for Jack - J97, it is different, because he is currently one of the famous singers, admired by many people, especially young people, and considered an idol. Moreover, this negative story is occasionally "dug up" again on the internet.

My daughter is in her teens. Like many of her peers, she admires singer Jack - J97 and hangs many of his pictures in her classroom. In recent days, I have seen her frequently go online to look up information related to this singer. She also discusses and comments with her friends, which makes me worried. Because she is at a sensitive age, the actions of "idols" can easily affect their psychology.

This story shows that many young people today still lack life skills and sexual safety skills. According to data shared by the Ministry of Health in September 2024, the birth rate among minors in Vietnam is still high. For every 1,000 children born, 42 are children of minors.

A population officer of Hai Duong province once shared that as society develops, especially with access to many streams of information on the internet, young people's awareness of love and sex is also earlier than before. Depending on each case, we can guide and educate them. Instead of prohibiting and creating negative thoughts and actions in them, we can "draw a path for the deer to run" so that they are not forced emotionally but still know their limits and are safe for themselves.

In addition, celebrities and public figures need to have a standard lifestyle and behavior. Avoid letting "dirty" information about private life spread on the internet, affecting the awareness of a part of fans in society.