To keep your marriage "like new"

"When husband and wife are in harmony, they can drain the East Sea."

Ms. Le Hoai Thuong and Mr. Nguyen Tuan Tu (living in Hai Ba Trung district, Hanoi) fell in love when they were studying at Hanoi University of Science and Technology. Their love during their student years, when they were innocent, pure, and carefree, was very beautiful. However, because they were both in conflict with each other, their families opposed their love.

After 7 years of fighting to protect their love, the two got married and lived together. The small family was filled with happiness with the addition of a new member. Both the paternal and maternal sides also became more loving and appreciative of their efforts over the years.

Previously, Thuong and her husband worked in a government agency. Later, because their income and salary were not enough to live in the expensive capital, they agreed to go out and start their own business. To maintain stability and economic development, the young couple had to make great efforts and look in the same direction. In the hustle and bustle of making a living, they did not forget to remind each other to "keep the fire" of family happiness.

According to Ms. Thuong, in modern society, the relationship between husband and wife, parents and children is more democratic and equal. In particular, the role of women in the family is more highly regarded and more than anyone else, they are very important in keeping the fire of marriage alive. Sharing the secret to maintaining family happiness today, Ms. Thuong and many young people share the same thought that there needs to be consensus, spending time with family, sharing the economic burden, understanding and sympathizing with each other.

"Attach together for 20 yearsSince we fell in love, the time we spent together has been long.Sometimes both feel "bored" and conflicts arise. Especially when the economy is difficult, the couple struggles hard. AlthoughSo, the couple is not blindly chasing after money. With busy work, the coupleagree, every day or every week must spend time together, spend time picking up and taking care of the children. Dinner must always have all family members present.", Ms. Thuong said.

Add more "spice"

Mr. Hoang Thanh Tuan (living in Hoang Mai district, Hanoi) and his wife have spent 10 years living together, sharing the joys and sorrows together. Mr. Thanh Tuan believes that in many families, the wife often has the habit of talking too much, dominating her partner. This makes the other person feel tired and frustrated when their feelings are not respected.

Therefore, according to him, the talkative wife should change her habit and become a better listener, to understand what her husband wants and make appropriate adjustments for both. Besides, through listening, the couple can also gain more strength to achieve the goals they both set in life.

Due to the nature of his work, Mr. Manh Hung (living in Ba Dinh District, Hanoi) often has to be away from home. Sometimes he has to go on construction projects in other provinces for months at a time. Time with his wife and children is rare. Therefore, when he has the opportunity, he tries to arrange everything to be with his family. For him, the moments of playing with his children, confiding in and talking with his wife are the happiest times.

"I always try to cherish every moment to be with my wife and children. After time spent on work, or after business trips, I always try to arrange, clean the house, decorate the home, cook delicious meals for the family. Seeing my wife and children enjoy the dishes I cook makes me very happy." – Mr. Hung shared.

According to Mr. Hung, men are still the pillars, responsible for the family economy, but women also have to take on more responsibilities. Not only are they good wives and good mothers, they also participate in social work and strive for their own careers. Therefore, to maintain happiness in a modern family, there needs to be consensus and sharing from both sides.

Know how to say sweet words; Always renew yourself to warm up love; Listen to sympathize and understand; "That thing" must be great; Never stop dating; Agree on money; Always bring joy to each other... Those are the ways that many young families today pass on to each other to keep the fire of marriage.

The 2023 communication campaign to build happy young families, with the theme "Touch to love", is part of a series of events under the program "Building happy young families" for the period 2021-2025 organized by the Central Committee of the Vietnam Youth Union and Phu Nhuan Jewelry Joint Stock Company PNJ to strengthen propaganda among all levels of the Union, members, and youth about the role and value of building happy, prosperous, and progressive families for the socio-economic development of the country.

Some psychologists share the "secret" that should be applied to keep the fire of marriage always new. That is, husband and wife should create surprises for each other. Creating surprises will be the "spice" that makes married life more interesting. There is no need to wait for holidays or anniversaries to give gifts to your wife or husband, but you can "suddenly" give each other small but meaningful and emotional gifts. For girls who love modernity and youthfulness, a delicate but equally unique jewelry set is one of the perfect choices. This trick will make "that person" feel excited. Thanks to that, the couple's feelings will always be fresh...