Siblings also need to know some unspoken rules to help keep relationships good.
Vietnamese folk song says: “Brothers are like arms and legs, when torn, they cover each other, when bad, they help each other.” It is right for brothers to help each other in times of trouble. However, to get along with each other, to love and care for each other, requires each person to be wise and tactful.
One of the wise and effective ways to maintain brotherly love is to know how to "keep your mouth shut". There are some things that if left unsaid, the relationship between brothers will be more harmonious.
1. Don't bring up past grudges
As siblings, it is difficult to avoid disagreements and arguments. These disagreements can be memorable or indelible scars.
However, what you should do is not bring up past grudges.
If they are wise, as they grow up, they will gradually learn to be more mature and tolerant. Whenever they remember the past, they will no longer worry about the small things of their childhood. They will focus on building a better life, taking care of their siblings.
This is not to avoid trouble, but to make the family atmosphere between siblings more comfortable and warm.
Life is full of ups and downs, and holding grudges will only strain your relationship with your siblings. By not talking about past grudges, you can create a positive atmosphere in your family.
2. Don't compare each other's achievements
Growing up, each sibling in the family has their own path to strive for. However, achievements are not something to brag about but something to share and be proud of.
So what each person should avoid is comparing each other's achievements. It is not to deny success, but to prevent comparison from becoming a source of jealousy between siblings.
If you show off your achievements and brag about how successful you are, it will easily lead to resentment and conflict in the family.
When you want to share your achievements, you should pay more attention to the feelings of your family members, it is best to be a little modest. On the contrary, when your siblings achieve something, you should sincerely congratulate them on their success.
By not talking about your own achievements, you can maintain equality between siblings, making the relationship stronger.
By not talking about past grudges, you can focus more on present and future happiness. By not talking about your achievements, you can maintain equality and harmony in the family better.
If you understand this, the relationship between siblings will be stronger.
TH (according to Vietnamnet)